Perfectionism

Gain the courage to be imperfect!

Perfectionism feels as if your self-worth is determined by your performance, rather than who you are as a person.

If you struggle with perfectionism, you may relate to the following experiences:

  • Never feeling good enough

  • Chronic fear of making mistakes or falling short

  • Heightened anxiety and stress levels

  • Difficulty completing tasks due to excessive revising and editing

  • Negative self-criticism and self-view

  • Procrastination and avoidance of tasks

  • Difficulty accepting compliments or recognizing achievements

  • Feeling of dissatisfaction even when goals are achieved

  • Avoidance of social situations to prevent judgement or imperfections in social performance

Perfectionism Facts:

  • Types of Perfectionism: There is both self-oriented perfectionism (setting high personal standards) as well as socially prescribed perfectionism (believing others expect perfection).

  • Psychological Impact: Perfectionism is associated with increased levels of stress, anxiety, depression, and burnout.

  • Impact on Relationships: Perfectionism can impact relationships because of high expectations and fear of criticism.

  • Perfectionism and Imposter Syndrome: There is a strong connection between perfectionism and impostor syndrome because the pursuit of perfection leads to feelings of inadequacy.

At Open Mind Therapy Center, We Can Help You to:

  • Better understand the roots and patterns of your perfectionism

  • Reduce stress, anxiety, and depression associated with perfectionism

  • Learn to set achievable, balanced goals rather than unattainable perfectionist standards

  • Build a more positive self-image and reduce self-criticism

  • Develop more realistic expectations of yourself in your relationships

  • Decrease procrastination and overthinking and improve productivity

Contact us today to get started on a confident and successful dating path!